Cut the strings when it is no more royal. Cut the strings when it is no more sincere. Cut the strings when it is no more sacred. Above all, we are all adults and are supposed to know what we want and how to behave when it comes to our human-human interaction!
It is your mission to assess and never fall for the temporary. It is not easy but it is the price of self-worth!
Let’s flip the script and do ourselves a favour and care for ourselves and shield us from unnecessary damage, as much as we do that for our beloved. Here, be selfish. Please, be! Do not play catch-22. If you must, choose you because you are a priority!
Do not tell me you did not see the writings on the wall! Please, frequently assess your steps and where do you stand. Trust your. hunch! That’s your secret weapon. Always, be detail-oriented. Why? because details speak to you! In fact they speaks to your subconscious. That conversation will dictate your future as it reveals the “hidden”.
Do not fall for word salads. Appreciate the difference between band-aids, words, and true actions. What gets you the bang for your buck is consistency! keep track of it! You are not foolish and you would never accept anything less than a fortitude that will get your back, lift you up, and make you glow!
Never confuse “attitude” with “standards”. Because the latter shows up, proportionally, to childish careless behaviour. Always praise your radical nature. Always be proud of your assertiveness and character. Also, appreciate your tender and kind you! That loyal you who would give your all when needed. This combo will never align with the “bite-size” policy of others! This is what makes you unique! In fact, only those who are well-experienced would appreciate this aspect! Never accept “free-styling” in human interactions. Values are meant to be fixed and never tampered with. It shows class. To be honest, that is magnetising!
Above all, be friends with time as it shows up the “gems”. I call them gems because figuring them out spares you a life-time of “failure to be the best version of yourself”. Time, again, is so so short to be spent on drama! If it keeps you wondering, it is not your fit!
Finally, Thank all your experiences, wholeheartedly. Nothing would twist you arm as not knowing your what you deserve. Self-worth is not a breakthrough invention! It is investing in the most important material you would encounter; investing in you!
Have faith in you! It is all about the silver-lining. Now, you know what symphony to pick to dance your royal dance!